An Interview with Andy Stanley

Andy Stanley is one of my very favorite authors and speakers. I listen to his monthly leadership podcast and read everything he writes. Last week, we released his newest book, The Grace of God.

Book Cover for The Grace of God by Andy Stanley

In case you don’t know, Andy Stanley is the founder of North Point Ministries (NPM), one of the fastest growing and most influential Christian organizations in America. Each Sunday, over 20,000 adults attend services at one of NPM’s three campuses in the Atlanta area: North Point Community Church, Browns Bridge Community Church, and Buckhead Church.

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Andy is also a best-selling author of Visioneering, The Next Generation Leader, and The Principle of the Path. He and his wife, Sandra, live in Alpharetta, Georgia, with their three children.

Recently, I had the opportunity to interview Andy about his new book and about what he is learning.

Q: So often we hear from you on leadership, vision, and communication. I’m curious. Why did you choose to write on the topic of grace?

My publisher, Matt Baugher, pointed out that I preach on this topic often but had never written about it. He asked me to consider a book on grace and immediately I got excited about it.

Q: There’s no subtitle to this book. If you were to add a subtitle, what would it be?

“The Solution to Just About Everything”

Q: It is easy to see the grace of God throughout the New Testament, but you say, “a careful reading of the Old Testament reveals grace to be God’s preeminent characteristic from the very beginning.” When do you believe we are first introduced to God’s grace?

Creation. Not to get too philosophical, but why is there anything? Why did God bother to create anything? For His glory, certainly. But life itself, the opportunity to live, to love, to be loved is an expression of God’s grace.

Q: It is evident that the church today has an uneasy relationship with grace. How can we, the church, do a better job of consistently communicating the message of grace?

The church, or I should say, church people, must quit adding the word “but” to the end of our sentences about grace. Grace plus is no longer grace. Grace minus is no longer grace. We are afraid people will abuse grace if presented in its purest form. We need not fear that, we should assume that. Religious people crucified grace personified. Of course grace will be abused. But grace is a powerful dynamic. Grace wins out in the end. It is not our responsibility to qualify it. It is our responsibility to proclaim it and model it.

Q: In the opening chapter you say, “When we are on the receiving end, grace is refreshing. When it is required of us, it is often disturbing.” It is true. How do you fight this constant tension?

The only reason I have for extending grace to others is that it has been extended to me. All the “one another” passages in the New Testament: Love one another, serve one another, forgive one another… are anchored to the fact that God did all of that for us. I am to extend grace to others as a response to God’s offer of grace to me.

Q: I find that people often confuse grace and mercy. How do you clarify the difference between these two ideas?

Mercy is not proactive. Mercy is not getting what I deserve. I can decide not to punish my children. But that different from doing something FOR them when I should actually be doing something TO them. Grace is proactive. Grace doesn’t merely withhold retribution. Grace offers something good in addition to withholding what an individual deserves.

Mercy says, “I won’t sue you.” Grace says, “I won’t sue you AND I’ll come over next week and serve you. God didn’t merely withhold punishment, He sent His Son to die for us.

Q: From your studies and/or experience, what has surprised you most about grace?

It is extraordinarily powerful. It is often extraordinarily slow. Fear works quicker. But fear erodes relationships. Grace is like a crock pot.

Q: Who are some voices that you are learning from these days?

These days, my staff. I’m surrounded by some great thinkers and great communicators. As I told the crowd at Catalyst last week, my opening talk was inspired by two of our staff communicators. I get a lot of credit for ideas and results that are actually a reflection of the efforts and insights of the brilliant people I get to work with every day.

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  • david strickland

    not only will i read it but i will give it away after i do.

  • http://www.arbucklefamilyblog.blogspot.com Nicole

    My husband is a youth pastor to 200+ students. As we serve together in ministry extending “grace” is something we deal with on a weekly basis. This new book will be a great resource for us to learn more about what Scripture has to say about grace & how we can live it out. Thank you for posting the interview & giveaway.

  • Serenity

    I am studying to be a Pastor, Grace is something that is new to me… I want to learn how to implement His grace within me as well as the people I come in contact with. And yes, I promise to read it :)

  • http://kimmikekim@aol.com mike Kim

    I am starving PHD student always looking for free stuff. Love Andy Stanley he’s one of my heros of the faith.

  • http://www.melakamin.com Mela Kamin

    I’m a sinner saved by grace and need to be reminded of that moment by moment. Sally Clarkson said “we cannot give what we do not possess.” Though we are lavished with grace, some people “hoard it,” as Serena Woods said. Still others never fully comprehend what they’ve been given and can’t articulate it, grasp it or live it out enough to share. I would very much enjoy reading Andy’s reflections on God’s grace. Thank you for the opportunity. Bless you as you continue to use your gifts to serve. 1 Peter 4:10

  • laurie

    God I Need YOU. I Need Your Love and Word in My Life.
    Teach Me ~ Lead Me ~ Use Me.

  • Matt

    I’ve learned more about communication from Andy Stanley than I ever learned in seminary! I know this book will offer more priceless examples of clear power-packed communication!

  • http://ellisluciano.wordpress.com Ellis

    I want to know what Grace is and I want you to show me.
    I wanna feel what Grace is, I know you can show me.
    Let’s talk about Grace.

  • Shirley (s_ling78)

    This book will be a (G)reat (R)eward of the (A)ction of love from the (C)reator of heaven and (E)arth.

  • http://www.ahopeforthefuture.org Alan Humphries

    I would like a copy of this book because Andy Stanley is one of my favorite authors and speakers! I live in Alaska and I Pastor a church, have a TV program that reaches the entire state of Alaska, minister in prison’s here, teach Anger Management all across the state and travel to the bush of Alaska often. I twitter almost daily and am on Facebook daily. I will read it and share it with those I minister to. Thanks for your investment in the Kingdom of God and all you do for Him.

  • http://Www.diaryofadreamer.com Julian Newman

    The reason I would like a copy of this book is because as a pastor I am constantly in that place of helping people navigate the ‘tension of grace’, and I believe Andy Stanley’s new book would be helpful in that pursuit. With the atmosphere of our culture and present generation, grace is an extremely precious commodity. And yes, I promise to read it. Thank you.

  • Sheryl

    I would LOVE o copy of this book!!!!

    To accurately extend the GRACE of God to other’s regarding their different views on how (or not to) celebrate the
    upcoming HOLIDAYS it is important
    for me to first understand,
    HOW GOD WOULD EXTEND
    HIS GRACE.

    Christians can be very divisive, and I don’t want to be one of them; unless it is something the character of God requires.

    Plus, I’m broke and right now free is good.

  • Debbie

    Grace! The message never gets old. How blessed I am to share in His grace. I look forward to reading this and being reminded, encouraged and challenged to live in light of what the wonderful grace of God. It makes all the difference. (And yes, I promise to read this!!!!)

  • Dana

    I’ve had one son to die… and one 18-year-old son who is refusing to keep church attendance a priority, which is REALLY irking me.. and another son with mysterious health problems. I need to more fully understand and appreciate God’s grace and learn to share the fullness of that grace with my family… to benefit us all by drawing us closer to him and then to each other.

    This would be my first Andy Stanley book and judging by the crockpot analogy, something I could really be able to relate to…

  • http://www.j4man.wordpress.com Jim F.

    I want a copy of the book because I want to tell others that I was hand picked by Michael Hyatt to read Andy Staley’s new book because I promised to read it …..But wait……..there is more…. I will also promise to write a review of it and will make it an honest review. Also I just think it would be cool to tell people I have been handpicked to read the book.

    Thank You in advance for the book ;)

  • Chris Thurman

    As the father of 2 children under 10 and a banking executive dealing with employees and customers alike, I need to demonstrate God’s grace with my life on a daily basis. I am a big fan of Andy Stanley’s books and his leadership and life lessons. I enjoyed learning from Philip Yancey in “What’s So Amazing About Grace,” and will read and apply this book in my Christian walk as well.

  • http://charlesfuller.net Charles Fuller

    Grace. Every Christian has experienced it. Every one of us has a responsibility to share it. How different our world could be if we did. Why don’t we? Andy Stanley always challenges, exhorts, and encourages his audience to live out their faith, and I am certain that this will be no exception. Not only will I read this book, but I will likely use it in sermon preparation.

  • Erica

    Leave a comment below–2 mins
    Fill out the special form.–1 min
    Twitter a link to this post.–30 second
    Read book.— a few hours
    Message of God’s grace– TIMELESS

  • Holly Leach

    I have not had the opportunity to read any books that are focused on God’s grace for us. I would really appreciate the chance to have this book to read. It is an area in my walk with God that I need more focus on. This book would help me do that. Thank you. May those who get a copy be blessed by reading it.
    G- God’s
    R- Reaching
    A- Affectionate
    C- Caring
    E- Embrace

  • Steve

    Grace is getting what you don’t deserve right? I don’t deserve God’s grace but I enjoy it. I don’t deserve this book either but I am sure I would enjoy it too.

  • http://www.heartbeatz.cc Seth

    25 yr old church planter in Asheville NC. Love Andy Stanely and his principles of a church for unchurched people and leading a church. After reading his earlier books it helped shape not only my preaching style but how we are shaping our church plant.

  • http://www.outstretched-arms.com/ Albert

    I’m a teacher about to go abroad and teach for a local church in Vietnam. There is something very special about the grace that goes beyond all understanding, especially since GOD is one who we can’t completely “get” until we’re reunited with Him. To break down this awesome gift of grace to people is one of biggest challenges of the local church. I would hope to help share the grace of God from the Bible with the help of this book. Thanks!

  • http://www.reflectionofgrace.wordpress.com Brandi

    I want a copy of this book because I believe Andy Stanley is a gifted communicator & I’d love to read it & review it on my blog for others who might hesitate to purchase it. Also, I promise to read it :)

  • Daniel Holke

    If anyone could write about God’s grace it’s Andy Stanley. It is such a deep subject, and something that has been on my mind very often recently. I serve on a Young Professionals board through our chamber of commerce, and we recently voted on whether or not to support a change to city employment laws to protect homosexuals. It reminded me that since God is love and showed us love first, that I could give others love. When I thought of grace, I knew that I needed to find God’s grace before I could know how to give it as well. I’d really like to read this book to supplement my time in the word. Thank you!

  • http://lynnadavidson.wordpress.com Lynn

    Why do I want to win this book? I love books, especially good Christian books! And grace is a hard topic to understand, yet it is a very basic one. I would like to read what Andy Stanley has to share that God has revealed to him on this topic. Therefore, I would definitely read the book. :) I have already mentioned this post on Twitter.

    Thanks for the opportunity.

  • Jerry H

    A really good book about grace
    That would sure put a smile on my face
    I’m sure it’s a dandy
    From an author like Andy
    So PLEASE send me one to my place

  • Suzie G

    As a Pastor God’s grace is needed in abundance, as a parent its needed even more than water.

  • Lana

    Hi Michael, I would love a copy of this book. Let’s just say reading this book has to be better than watching the Rangers lose another game! (Just kidding! Hey, you asked for creative!!!) Actually, Andy Andrews mentioned Andy Stanley as one of the people he looks to as a mentor this wkend at WOF and I’d be very interested in reading some of his work. Yes, I promise to read it! :)

  • http://jmibullfrog.wordpress.com/ Jeremiah Nelson

    I would like a copy of the book to share with a men’s group I attend (as my schedule allows) at a Presbyterian Church call Band Of Brother (B.O.B.). Even though I am a catechumen in the Orthodox Church, I like to share what I am learning and experiencing with these brothers of my former Protestant persuasion. Especially in this age of Emerging Church ideas of “who has the authority to interpret Scripture rightly?” I like being the voice that speaks for the authority of the Church, which has stood for 2000 and DID NOT fall into apostasy: The Orthodox Church. I share the love, grace and power that are present in the most ancient Church Tradition. The Orthodox Church has radically transformed my walk with Christ, and I enjoy sharing that, even if it is only with a few guys on a Monday evening.

  • http://burnsj.blogspot.com/ Jonathon Burns

    I would definately read this book.
    I have never read a book by Andy Andrews, however this book intrigues me. I recently read “The Gospel According to Jesus”, which has caused me to think a lot about Grace. As a college student, I sometimes see a lack of ‘grace’ among those in my age group. There is great care for people who are suffering and needy, but not nearly as much care for their next door neighbor. Grace doesn’t believe in entitlement. Grace is the antithesis of entitelement. Perhaps this book could be one I would pass on to classmates and perhaps will start dialogue fostering a community of grace.

  • http://www.sunvalleycc.co Kim Robilotto

    I really enjoy learning from Andy Stanley. He is a very gifted communicator. I hope that I am
    choosen to receive his new book because I am a begger telling other beggers where to find food. The food for life is only found bu God’s saving grace for all of us. I have learned that I have to continue to think like a missionary to keep reaching those who don’t know Jesus.

  • http://georgemanlangit.com George Manlangit

    “…fear erodes relationships. Grace is like a crock pot.”
    That’s a good analogy. And also since mercy is not getting what we deserve, it creates a tendency towards fear. Whereas with grace, it allows us to experience God’s love unconditionally.

    When unexpected circumstances arises that makes us suffer, it is most often mercy that we most ask from God because of our tendency towards fear. Instead we should strive to ask for God’s grace to sustain us and accept the trials or suffering that we have to go through.

  • http://www.thebridgemuncie.com Joshua L. Henry

    I want to read this book because as a pastoral leader, I feel called to be continually learning and growing in God’s grace, to better help administer that grace with my ministry gifts to others. A prayer I often pray is: Lord help me to always live in, learn by, lead through, and most importantly, lean on you oh God. Bless these others commenting, their families and ministries. Let us all lean heavily on you God and let us know your grace is enough.

  • Bill Nance

    I have 3 kids under 3 and a half years old. I need something to keep me sane.
    And yes, I promise to read it!

  • Darilynn Caston

    I don’t just want this book I need it…I am a kindergarten teacher and have 4 children under the age of 8. I am recently separated and not many months ago I thought I had a solid grasp on what Grace really meant..now I’m not so sure. Whether it’s the Alaskan moose that run out on our roads causing other cars to swerve in front of me, or the bears I must remind my children to walk for as they play in our back yard or the drama that has unfolded in our lives, I realize that no matter what life throws our way, I need to continue be reminded what Grace is and that I must choose to show it and accept it. This book would be a great companion to enjoy after my children have gone to bed and the country side grows dark and still and remote as only Alaska can do. Thank you for all you do.

  • James Sharp

    I would like a free copy of the book because I am a Christian looking to better myself and those around me. Soon I will be leading a small group at our church, and I hope to share The Grace of God with everyone whom I come into contact with. When leaders share The Grace of God to people around them, the world becomes a better place person by person.

  • Christian

    First, yes I promise to read it. in addition I would more than likely recommend it and loan it to friends.
    Based on the interview, I’m very interested. I’ve had some recent events in my life that have forced me to take a deeper look at grace at what this means. It’s easy to require other people to extend grace to me, but I in turn must extend grace to them as well. also last spring my dad showed me a few of andy’s dvd messages and I enjoyed what I heard. Thanks for the opportunity michael.

  • http://www.teawithmcnair.typepad.com McNair Wilson

    “Grace” is God’s middle name. It’s what God does as easily as breathing. Thankfully his breath brushes my cheek, blows through my hair, fills me and surrounds my heart. Grace has changed me, and I am learning, bit-by-bit to Grace-full with others.

    “Follow me,” Jesus says,”and learn the unforced rhythms of grace.” (Matt.11:28, The Message)

  • http://www.cbcinverness.com Greg Kell

    Andy and I are the same age – both grew up as PK’s, both served in ministry under our fathers – both are now pastoring churches we birthed. I have followed Andy’s ministry since the early 90′s, and have deeply benefitted from his transparency and genuineness. We finally got to meet in person in April of 2009 at a One Day Catalyst Conference at North Point. I would love to have a copy of his new book – I know this particular subject would both bless my own life and inspire me in my own writing.

  • http://www.teawithmcnair.typepad.com McNair Wilson

    Grace is God’s middle name. I feel no closer to God than when I can be grace-full in life. Any new insights I can find (hear, read) on grace…I’m interested, fascinated, eager.

  • http://Www.neartownchurch.org Rene A. Enriquez

    I’ve been following andy’s teaching since late 90′s. Taught a two day seminar in PowerPoint based on his book choosing to cheat. I hope to meet him someday. During that time I was working on my MBA and found an immediate liking for his style of communication and content. I’ve shared his teaching, books and podcasts to many others including church leadership during my service as a church administrator. I also realize that I can never learn enough and by the Grace of God, I’ve been given the privilege to both learn and teach as a lay minister in student ministry. I’m confident he’s hit another home run with this latest book.

  • Todd Rice II

    I’m looking forward to this book one way or another. I understand the grace of God but struggle showing grace to other people. I’m hoping that by reading this book I better understand grace and I can pass this book on to someone around me.

  • Todd Rice II

    and yes i promise to read it

  • http://flowingfaith.blogspot.com/ Mari-Anna

    I’m in love with grace and the Giver of Grace. There’s nothing more delightful, nothing more needed than grace in this world. My life goal is to share God’s grace with as many people as I can. I would love to get inspired by this book and pass on the good stuff to my blog readers.

    “All that passing laws against sin did was produce more lawbreakers. But sin didn’t, and doesn’t, have a chance in competition with the aggressive forgiveness we call grace. When it’s sin versus grace, grace wins hands down. All sin can do is threaten us with death, and that’s the end of it. Grace, because God is putting everything together again through the Messiah, invites us into life—a life that goes on and on and on, world without end.”(Romans 5:20-21, MSG)

    Thanks for the fun contest! Thanks for Andy Stanley for writing the graceful book! God’s grace & peace to you both!

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  • Scott

    I would read this book. I am just past being baptized in the Catholic church.
    I am sure this book would be a great read!

  • http://toyayu.tumblr.com Livia Rahayu

    I live and minister in a country in Asia, and to get a hold of a book like this would be a blessing not only to me, but also to those I minister to.

  • Melanie

    I want a copy of this book because “God’s Grace lifts me up”is a translation of my name, Melanie. which is real similar to The Grace of God. I am a college student at a secular University. I am in a sorority and trying to figure out who I want to be. I am a Christian and not going out parting on nights like tonight or weekends like Halloween is easy to say, but hard to do when you’re one of the few staying in. So, I would love to read Stanley’s book and be inspired. I would love to learn more about Christian leadership, for myself and for helping others. If given the book, I would definitely read it!

  • Kala Reyna

    ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~ * ~
    Webster’s definition of want(in short): to be without, to desire, to have a need, to lack the necessaries of life.

    Grace is a necessity in life that we all need but don’t deserve. This book will challenge me on two levels:
    1. Am I being refreshed by God’s grace?
    2. Am I disturbed when God’s grace is required of me?

    Webster’s definition of promise(in short): an oral or written agreement to do or not to do something.

    You have my written word that I will read this book.
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  • http://rachelshae.wordpress.com Rachel Shae

    I have questions. Like a two-year-old who always asks Why.

    I’m wrestling with a few things–have been for a bit. Recently, I randomly dug up an old podcast of Stanley’s (Go Fish Part 5: Muddy Waters from 9/8/09): random because I just happened to need a new computer, and I just happened to buy this computer from my father, who just happened to have saved that podcast, and I decided to keep his collection.

    Combined with a few other life events, his presentation of what salvation is led me to be 100% sure of mine for the first time in my life. I know, sounds dramatic–but really, growing up in the church as a pastor’s daughter and attending a religious university and working in ministry just seemed to warp my sense of what exactly grace is, to the point where I got angry when I felt people were undeserving of it, and usually felt like I would manage to ultimately fall short. I hovered around 99% sure, but always had that gut feeling of fear.

    I know the next part of this…process? will be me just trying to accept this and make it make sense in my mind. Since Stanley helped me with the first “Aha!” moment, I’m curious as to what else he has to say on the subject. Obviously, I respect his insight. And I have so many friends who scorn religion, I want to understand what I believe–what I want to believe–so I don’t turn any one off of the gospel through misspeaking.
    Regardless, October 2, 2010 was a beautiful day!

    You know what’s weird? Being grateful to someone you’ve never met.

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