An Interview with Andy Stanley

Andy Stanley is one of my very favorite authors and speakers. I listen to his monthly leadership podcast and read everything he writes. Last week, we released his newest book, The Grace of God.

Book Cover for The Grace of God by Andy Stanley

In case you don’t know, Andy Stanley is the founder of North Point Ministries (NPM), one of the fastest growing and most influential Christian organizations in America. Each Sunday, over 20,000 adults attend services at one of NPM’s three campuses in the Atlanta area: North Point Community Church, Browns Bridge Community Church, and Buckhead Church.

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Andy is also a best-selling author of Visioneering, The Next Generation Leader, and The Principle of the Path. He and his wife, Sandra, live in Alpharetta, Georgia, with their three children.

Recently, I had the opportunity to interview Andy about his new book and about what he is learning.

Q: So often we hear from you on leadership, vision, and communication. I’m curious. Why did you choose to write on the topic of grace?

My publisher, Matt Baugher, pointed out that I preach on this topic often but had never written about it. He asked me to consider a book on grace and immediately I got excited about it.

Q: There’s no subtitle to this book. If you were to add a subtitle, what would it be?

“The Solution to Just About Everything”

Q: It is easy to see the grace of God throughout the New Testament, but you say, “a careful reading of the Old Testament reveals grace to be God’s preeminent characteristic from the very beginning.” When do you believe we are first introduced to God’s grace?

Creation. Not to get too philosophical, but why is there anything? Why did God bother to create anything? For His glory, certainly. But life itself, the opportunity to live, to love, to be loved is an expression of God’s grace.

Q: It is evident that the church today has an uneasy relationship with grace. How can we, the church, do a better job of consistently communicating the message of grace?

The church, or I should say, church people, must quit adding the word “but” to the end of our sentences about grace. Grace plus is no longer grace. Grace minus is no longer grace. We are afraid people will abuse grace if presented in its purest form. We need not fear that, we should assume that. Religious people crucified grace personified. Of course grace will be abused. But grace is a powerful dynamic. Grace wins out in the end. It is not our responsibility to qualify it. It is our responsibility to proclaim it and model it.

Q: In the opening chapter you say, “When we are on the receiving end, grace is refreshing. When it is required of us, it is often disturbing.” It is true. How do you fight this constant tension?

The only reason I have for extending grace to others is that it has been extended to me. All the “one another” passages in the New Testament: Love one another, serve one another, forgive one another… are anchored to the fact that God did all of that for us. I am to extend grace to others as a response to God’s offer of grace to me.

Q: I find that people often confuse grace and mercy. How do you clarify the difference between these two ideas?

Mercy is not proactive. Mercy is not getting what I deserve. I can decide not to punish my children. But that different from doing something FOR them when I should actually be doing something TO them. Grace is proactive. Grace doesn’t merely withhold retribution. Grace offers something good in addition to withholding what an individual deserves.

Mercy says, “I won’t sue you.” Grace says, “I won’t sue you AND I’ll come over next week and serve you. God didn’t merely withhold punishment, He sent His Son to die for us.

Q: From your studies and/or experience, what has surprised you most about grace?

It is extraordinarily powerful. It is often extraordinarily slow. Fear works quicker. But fear erodes relationships. Grace is like a crock pot.

Q: Who are some voices that you are learning from these days?

These days, my staff. I’m surrounded by some great thinkers and great communicators. As I told the crowd at Catalyst last week, my opening talk was inspired by two of our staff communicators. I get a lot of credit for ideas and results that are actually a reflection of the efforts and insights of the brilliant people I get to work with every day.

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  • http://osize.co Osize

    You should send me a copy because I will read it.

  • http://alexanderbmurphy.wordpress.com/ Alex Murphy

    I love it that God has placed this topic on Andy and his publisher’s heart! I need to hear more of it and preach it to myself. I know how to work harder, but that’s not the key. I’d love to read Andy’s thoughts on grace to further reshape my view of and relating to God.

  • Mary West

    I would like to recieve a copy of the book, “Grace of God” to see for myself what misconceptions I may have about that topic. Perhaps then I can be better prepaired when I share with others the depth of His grace and love. In His Love and Care, Mary West

  • http://www.missionerickson.com Todd Erickson

    I’m serving in Guatemala and it is often difficult to get new books down here, so I need you to send me Andy’s latest! Thanks. -Todd

  • Joel Mosier

    I thoroughly enjoy listening to Andy’s leadership podcasts and would love to read this new book

  • Steve Hirst

    I’d like to read it because I find the idea of an OT God having any sort of ‘grace; to be completely laughable. Ask the Midianites what they think of that God’s so-called grace. Based on his remarks I don’t think Stanley will be able to convince me that the brutal, saidistic, and yes, evil god of the OT exhibits what he calls grace, but I will read the book and give him a chance to.

    That God does what he wants, when he wants, without even an attempt at
    self-justification, and all for what reason? According to Paul, all for his own greater glory. Oh, how charming. For his own glory he condemns
    billions to eternal torment, drowns millions of innocent beasts and
    thousands of children, orders the slaughter of entire cities down to the
    last man, woman, and child, creates a race that he knows is flawed and will hurt itself (so that in their pain they can worship him better), refuses to deal with any other god on a friendly basis, restricts the normal expression of the sexual function, rains doom on those who dare to try to be as knowledgable as he is, and so on.

    You hear a lot from Christians about Yahweh’s “infinite compassion and
    mercy”. Tell it to the Midianites. Numbers 31 is a classic example of
    wholesale slaughter and rape under the direction of Yahweh. A sample of
    this delightful tale: “They waged the campaign against Midian, as Yahweh had ordered Moses, and they put every male to death…. The sons of Israel took the Midianite women captive with their young children, and plundered all their cattle, all their flocks and all their goods. They set fire to the
    towns where they lived and all their encampments…. Moses was enraged with the commanders of the army … who had come back from this military
    expedition. He said, ‘Why have you spared the life of all the women? …
    So kill all the male children. Kill also all the women who have slept with a man. Spare the lives only of the young girls who have not slept with a man, and take them for yourselves.’” Yes, friends, this is infinite mercy and compassion for you. I PARTICULARLY like the way that Moses got upset with them for sparing women and male children, but allowed the young girls to be kept for later raping. If only humans could keep to such lofty standards without the necessity of divine revelation.

  • Clint Roberson

    I love, love, love all of Andy’s stuff. He is an excellent communicator and his material is so relevant and life applicable. It would be an awesome thing to get free copy of thi book. I like to take his books and teach them in Bible study to our congregation.

  • Jake Manne

    I would love to read this book. I am in the middle of a transition to a new ministry and am with my parents and my wife and 4 kids during the transition. I am stockpiling thoughts and ideas and shaping my values more clearly as I get ready to enter a new role of Strategic Discipleship.

  • http://swmackey.wordpress.com Steve Mackey

    Honestly, I need to gain a better understanding and comprehension of Grace vs. Mercy. I struggle w/ this. After 5ish years of drug abuse and now 2 stints in jail, a felony conviction, I struggle with being merciful with my son (whom I am talking about). I would hope that Andy’s book could show me through letting go of the past hurts and embracing my son in his nxt stage of life. Nothing creative – sorry – just raw emotion.

  • http://www.nccumc.org/mediacenter Laura

    This interview inspired this morning and gave me new feelings/thoughts/perspectives on grace. I particularly like the difference between grace and mercy. I haven’t studied much about grace, but it is feeling all the more important to. I think it could be the key to everything, just as Andy suggested with his “subtitle.” If I get a copy of the book, I will definitely read it. I am a Christian librarian, and I will add it to our conference library that serves over 300 churches. I will also write a review of it to post on the library’s blog, and I’ll tweet the review just like I tweeted this interview. We have a few other items by Andy Stanley, and I know our congregations would be interested in reading more from him, just like I am.

  • http://kellysinging.com KellySinging

    When I saw your announcement on twitter last night I was excited for the opportunity to enter this contest! A few weeks ago I specifically asked God to show me the keys of grace. I’ve unlocked a few treasures about the subject, but is not as clear as it needs to be in order to move forward with my vision:

    “I’m here to help others grow spiritually. The way we respond to life is affected by the things people have done to us as well as the reaping of our own choices. These are the things that keep us from moving forward with God. An unhealthy tree will struggle to grow.

    Your life has a purpose, but before you can really fulfill your destiny you may need emotional healing. Then you are able to more clearly see the process of character development that brings you to a place of spiritual maturity, being fit for service no matter the calling.”

    I am also writing a book called, A Pilgrim’s Journey, to help others walk this road. The outline for the chapter on grace is still sketchy. I’m on a quest to learn more about grace, so I will absolutely read the book!

    Thank you for reading. Be blessed! :)

  • http://www.bookox.com Thomas Womack

    This looks like Andy’s most valuable book–because it’s about the most valuable topic.

  • http://benjimast.com Benji Mast

    I am a 21 year-old student at a Bible college. I want to learn how to live missionally in Biblical and relevant way. I love Andy Stanley. I’m looking forward to hearing how a man so disciplined, with such exacting standards for himself, will talk about grace. Thanks!

  • Brian Certain

    At the 2001 Catalyst Conference at Northpoint in Atlanta during Andy’s 2 Keynote messages I heard my call to leadership within the church. Since that time I have given away over 50 copies of Visioneering to other leaders as a road map to their leadership. Any has been a long distance inspiration to me and cannot wait to read his latest message, especially one that is so close to his heart.

  • http://www.wingsoffreedomok.com Jim Rutherford

    Our church, God’s Shining Light, is involved in a program, Wings of Freedom, a ministry to addicts, alcoholics, ex-cons and the homeless, so about 75% of the 400+ on any Sunday are from that background. If order for our people to forgive themselves, they have to understand God’s grace in forgiving them, in loving them, is being for them instead of against them. I will eagerly read this book, in hopes it will help me to help our people – those Jesus referred to as “the least of these” – better understand and accept God’s grace.

  • Duane

    Wow. Every book from Andy has a special place on my bookshelf and in my heart & mind, simply because I have learned so much from each of his books! Grace. Probably THE MOST IMPORTANT thing there is; Involves eternity and also daily life. A must read in my opinion!!

  • Jenny Hodge

    I would love to have a copy of Andy Stanley’s book, The Grace of God. As the Bible tells me, God’s Grace is sufficient for whatever need I may have. I love to read, especially anything that has to do with God. I want to continue to grow in God and feel by reading things like Mr. Stanley’s book, I can add to my spiritual stature. Although I am only 5’3″ physically, The Grace of God makes me a GIANT in the face of satan. Thank you for your ministry and for all the things you do for the Kingdom of God!

  • Rob Weideman

    The main reason I want this book is to learn how I can move from the fake imposter grace with “but” at the end to a true expression of it. I want to move from fear to freely expressing it.

  • Kenny Goza

    I am an avid follower of Andy Stanley, from podcasts, tv and books.
    I would really like a copy of this new book, especially since I have need of God’s Grace in my life. Due to some current disappointments, I need to be reminded of the provision of God’s grace in my life.

  • http://www.going1on1.org Michael May

    I look forward to getting a FREE copy of Andy’s new book, The Grace of God. I’d like to read Andy’s thoughts on this important teaching in God’s Word. My desire is to learn more about God’s grace which is His desire and power to obey God. I want to learn how to give up and let God send ambulances of Grace to meet my daily needs!!

  • Simon Schmuki

    I don’t know Andy but the mercy vs. grace got my attention. I would love to read the book.

  • Rick

    I just finished reading the book, Gracenomics by Mike Foster and I would love to continue getting refreshed on the idea of Grace. Gracenomics was great but left me wanting more.

  • http://passionatechristianliving.blogspot.com Stephanie

    I would like to read this book to see if it clearly points to Jesus Christ’s saving work on the cross. God has given us grace in the person of Jesus Christ.

  • http://bkjournal.wordpress.com Karl Mealor

    Why I need this book:

    1) Just finished reading Leviticus. I really miss bacon, BBQ sandwiches, and working in my yard on Saturdays. Please help.

    2) Have never heard of this guy named Andy Stanley. Thought it might be a good idea to learn from a guy who pastors a church that is larger than my county.

    3) Ok. #2 was a lie. I’ve heard of him. See? I need grace.

    4) I have five kids. Girls. They like to eat. Sometimes two or three times a day. Doesn’t leave much $ for buying books.

    5) I just read all the previous comments and they sound so spiritual. Mine doesn’t. So by giving me the book, you would be giving it to the person that is the least worthy. Isn’t that what grace is all about?

    • Eric Snider

      Finally a creative comment that was worth reading! thanks Karl! and Michael, you better send this churl a book!

  • http://www.epicparent.tv Chris Spradlin

    I simply want this book because this is where I am living right now. God is moving and shaking some my foundation and it deals with grace.

  • http://www.twitter.com/jbphd Jonathan Bartling

    Listening to Andy Stanley’s podcasts on leadership is like a breath of fresh air… looking forward to hearing God’s breath of fresh air on grace through Andy’s newest book. Would love to receive a copy!

  • http://www.dancyville.net/churches/assem.htm Robert Brooks

    It sounds like a great book. I pastor a small rural TN congregation who over the years have gathered a somewhat ‘works’ approach to the Lord. This approach causes the lost and uncommitted to avoid the Lord because of their their guilt and pain. Grace means to me, “unconditional acceptance.” This book might help me better shape my message of hope to these good folks.

    I am committed to reading the book.

  • TNeal

    Loved Stanley’s “Principle of the Path” enough to purchase and send to my son. Your recommendations in the past have proven to be winners. As a Texas Ranger fan, I’d say you’ve hit them out of the park.

  • Richard Smith

    The timing is perfect for you to post this interview. I would love to receive a copy of Mr. Stanley’s book: Grace of God”. I have never read any of his books and now I definitely want to. Thank you for the opportunity at a perfect time in my life.

  • http://www.meredithteasley.com Meredith

    I have lots to learn about God’s grace! I also work with lots of young Christian leaders who have tons of influence on the next generation. I promise to not only read the book, but also pass it on to a future leader!

  • http://twitter.com/NowInANutshell @NowInANutshell

    You’ve got timely words for me up there. If my life up to this point got written in a book, my need for grace would be highlighted in almost every chapter. Perhaps I’ve been focusing on only one side of grace, and my friendship and leadership are experiencing the downside. This sneak peek to Andy Stanley’s “The Grace of God” challenges my current mindset. Surely grace will chase after me everyday of my life. What about I chase after somebody with grace this time? Yes, I would like to get a copy of this book to know how God’s grace really works. I need a revelation of how it can penetrate even the most mundane of my friends’ circumstances, and mine, too.

    “Fear erodes relationships…” Something to ponder. Grace? Something to give away.

  • Jennifer Holmes

    A friend recommeded this book. Can’t wait to read it!

  • http://jeffreyholton.blogspot.com Jeff Holton

    I would like this book, and I would read it! Here’s why:

    1. I saw Andy for the first time a couple months ago at the Catalyst One-day in Seattle. I was quite impressed with him, and surprised how unlike his father he is (as a speaker, not as a man of faith). I want to absorb more from him, and to have more of his material for dialoguing with him.

    2. I haven’t received a book from Thomas Nelson in over three weeks and I’m starting to break out in hives.

    3. It’s my birthday on Thursday. You could get me a present this way and be able to write it off as a business expense!

    :)

  • Scott

    I’ve always enjoyed reading Andy’s books and have been fortunate enough to hear him speak at a few conferences. This new book sounds great. My wife and I lead a community group and I’m interested in reading this because I think it might be a good one for our group to study together. Thanks for the opportunity! Oh, and I promise to read the book.

  • http://www.jeffrandleman.net Jeff Randleman

    I’ve had the opportunity to receive as well as extend grace, numerous times, so grace is a topic close to my heart. I would love the opportunity to read Andy Stanley’s new book. I promise I will!

  • http://www.melissaknorris.com Melissa K Norris

    My favorite hymn is Amazing Grace. I don’t think I understand the depth of it or grace. I didn’t realize I had mercy and grace pegged as the same thing until I ready your post and Andy’s answer on that. I’ve been working on forgiveness and letting go of old hurts. I think extending grace is the next step and this book would help me on that journey.

  • Dennis Mockler

    Making a promise to read the book should I receive one is not an issue. This is a book I’ve had my eye on for some time and am anxious to read. I find so many of Andy’s comments to you to be relevant to my thoughts and areas I’m looking to improve on and understand more and to hopefully help my church and the world understand better. He’s right, it is so easy to add the plus or minus to grace that isn’t part of the process and in doing so we have distorted and diluted the meaning and power of grace. His comment relative to fear ties in well with Max Lucado’s book “Fearless” which I’m reading now. I know that one of my many faults is not fully accepting the grace that has been offered and that in doing so I’m offending God. This is an area of my relationship with Christ I’m looking to grow in which is why this book has been on my radar. As of this three days ago I’ve been out of work for six months and I’m trying diligently to find the purpose and call God has for me, to grow my relationship with him and if I could secure a means of income that’d be pretty neat, too. Nonetheless, by God’s grace we’ve had two daughters get married during that period and we haven’t missed a meal yet. I’m sorry this isn’t a terribly creative post, but it is sincere and heartfelt.

  • http://www.coltmelrose.com Colt Melrose

    Michael,

    Thanks for this interview and the chance to get my hands on a copy of the new book. Over the past few months, God has been working in me a need for more grace in my life. Particularly in my relationship with my father. If choses to receive a copy of this book, I would most certainly read it and cherish it as part of God’s work in my life in the area of grace.

    Thanks for your generosity.
    Colt

  • Victor Irving

    I am meeting with some guys from my church every Tuesday morning. I think this would be a great book to go through with these guys.

  • Margie

    Andy Stanley always brings a fresh perspective to any topic. I can’t wait to read what God has shown him about grace! Anything that helps me explain that grace to others is something I need to read. Hoping it will be something our small group can study as well.

  • John Alexander

    Absolutely I’d read it. Andy Stanley is one of my favorites. I want this book because I want to grow as a pastor and as a leader. Grace is a subject that we don’t always fully embrace and yet it is everything.

  • Chris Stuckey

    Me and my wife has always said that I would love to hear Andy speak on the Grace of God. We hear gimpses of it in his messages and feel he needs to at least have a message about it one day. When I saw that he wrote a book on Grace I couldn’t wait to get my hands on it. I just finished a two year study at Grace Ministries in Atlanta and would love to read Andy’s take on “Grace.”

  • http://GraceGlobalNetwork.org Henry Oursler

    I am continually looking for new ways to communicate the concept of grace to people. Each generation needs a fresh look at one of the most important truths in the Christian faith. Andy’s writings have always had those fresh words and keen insights. I look forward to reading something that is “The Solution to Just About Everything.”

  • DIana

    Visioneering was a life changing book for me, as most of Andy’s books have been. I would love a chance to read this one (and free is always good!)

  • http://keithparker.wordpress.com Keith Parker

    Two sentences:

    “When we are on the receiving end, grace is refreshing. When it is required of us, it is often disturbing.”

    This is THE most honest statement I’ve read regarding Grace and how it is manifested in our lives. When I mull over that statement……it’s me!!! Grace is truly disturbing when many of the competing elements of our lives require us to show retribution, revenge and retaliation.

    I gotta read this book

  • http://amarkedchange.com Wes Howard

    I love learning leadership from Andy Stanley. I love reading books on the grace of God. Now these two have come together. Sign me up please!

  • sarchere Archer

    Andy has been a great influence on me through his book Next Generation Leader and the Catalyst conference. I always love hearing the insight he receives from the Lord.

  • http://9awalsh.com/ Nina Walsh

    I am writing a book about the untimely death of my daughter and the earthquake following her death. I can find grace is much of the aftermath, except her husband, a former devoutly religious man, who has turned his back on God for nearly two years now, and gave away two children. I need to read as much about grace as I can. I pray for a good resolution for my son-in-law before seeking publication.

  • Michelle Ullom

    I am in contact with hundreds of people on a daily basis through my market. I am constantly trying to touch lives as they frequent my store, through a smile, a song for the kids, or just having an ear to listen. The eclectic mix of people from drug addicts to alcoholics is challenging, as to my showing patience and not judging. I try to show the heart of God but I want to be in constant renewal of mind and spirit to extend that to the people I meet. The subject of Grace is huge and encompassing of many areas. I thirst for books that can enrich not only my life but the lives of those whom I touch. Thank-you Michelle Ullom

  • http://www.michellesarabia.org Michelle Sarabia

    I want to continue reading more of Andy’s work. Here is hoping I am given Grace each day because Lord knows I was a “but” person too!

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