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Is It an Obstacle or an Opportunity?

If you want to improve the quality of your life or business, planning is essential. You have to be honest about your current reality, envision a better future, and then create a roadmap for getting from one to the other.

But having a solid plan is no guarantee against encountering problems along the way. As a mentor of mine used to say, “Doo-doo occurs.”

In the video above, a classical violist faces the unexpected. Near the end of a concert, a cell phone goes off in the audience. Note what he does:

  • He embraces the interruption as an opportunity.
  • He uses the unexpected to demonstrate his artistry.
  • He wins over the crowd and a creates an unforgettable experience.

The Apostle James encouraged this kind of attitude when he wrote:

When all kinds of trials and temptations crowd into your lives my brothers, don’t resent them as intruders, but welcome them as friends! Realize that they come to test your faith and to produce in you the quality of endurance (1:2–4, J.B. Phillips New Testament)

The bottom line is that it all comes down to your perspective. Do you see obstacles as problems or opportunities?

Question: How could the problem you face today be an opportunity? You can leave a comment by clicking here.
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Posted on January 25, 2012

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  • http://colebradburn.com/ Cole Bradburn

    Years ago, one of my mentors told me “Without a clear vision, you cannot tell the difference between opportunity and distraction.”  

    Once you know where you are going, it provides a clearer way to make decisions.

    • http://theordainedbarista.com/ Barry Hill

      Cole, that is great stuff. And another reason to spend time clarifying the vision we have for our faith, families, careers, and our lives.  Great job tying together today’s post and Monday’s post!

      • http://colebradburn.com/ Cole Bradburn

        Thanks Barry!

  • Andrew Acker

    I always say perspective is worth at least 50 IQ-points. In the current problem I face though I will either be apart of propelling an organization forward and given the “blessing” to do so, or I will have the opportunity to begin with a new company and a fresh start in the early part of my career.

    • Jim Martin

      Andrew, I like this!  ”…perspective is worth at least 50 IQ-points.”  Now that is true!  Again and again I have seen the value of seeking clarity which will often give me a different perspective on a situation.

  • http://www.irunurun.com/blog/ Travis Dommert

    Brilliant!  My favorite take-away from studying Ritz-Carlton.  ”There are no problems, just opportunities!”  …from the study of satisfaction, they know that a problem handled well is more likely to lead to higher guest satisfaction than never experiencing a problem at all.

    • http://jeremystatton.com/ Jeremy Statton

      Great point. 

  • Sally

    Love it!  Not only is he a gifted musician but a quick thinker.  I would of thought of doing this a day late. :)  As a Christian what helps me to see things as an opportunity versus a struggle is being in God’s Word on a regular basis; I see God’s hand in everyday life much more compared to those times when I slide away from daily time with Him.  – Sally

  • http://www.irunurun.com/blog/ Travis Dommert

    Present life example…we have a newborn at home who has a tendency to take center stage from his 4 young siblings as well as draw sleep from his parents which can make us a bit less jovial. I occasionally get concerned the kids will resent him.  (A 20min screamfest makes the ring tone sound like music to my ears!)
    Instead, my wife has used it to teach the other kids various lessons…such as patience, caring, and tolerance.  Even teamwork…they’ll rally together to brainstorm “how can we make Levi happy!?”  She’s amazing.

    • Rachel Lance

      Lovely example – hopefully I’ll remember this one day. Thanks for sharing!

  • http://charlielyons.ca Charlie Lyons

    His frustration with the ___________ (insert your thoughts about the person who’s phone rings :)) is apparent but it’s a great recovery on his part. I wrote about this topic not long ago on my own blog: 
    http://www.charlielyons.ca/2011/11/interruption-or-opportunity/

    Thanks, Michael. Blessings!

  • http://www.susanbiali.com/ Dr. Susan Biali, M.D.

    Last night, a coaching client was complaining me about how bad the situation at her workplace is getting…as I have said many times to people in her situation, I told her that these are often circumstances to be celebrated, as very often you won’t get the motivation needed to make the leap until you’re really squeezed by your present circumstances. She has been saying she wants to leave for a while now – I have the feeling that God is trying to help her out : )

    • Jim Martin

      Susan, I like the way you express this.  ”…very often you won’t get the motivation needed to make the leap until you’re really squeezed by your present circumstances.”  That is so true.

  • K James Rosentrater

    This is wonderful. I pray to have the quickness of mind and readiness of heart to really see what is going on around me. It’s so easy to focus on the obstacle, particularly if you are in the company of people who seem to consistently do that. A little bit of spoken negativity goes a long ways.

    • Jim Martin

      I really like the beginning of your third sentence.  ”It’s so easy to focus on the obstacle….”  Very true!  Invariably, when I focus on the obstacle, I lose the perspective that I need to meet the challenge that I am facing.  Thanks.

  • http://jeremystatton.com/ Jeremy Statton

    I appreciate the phrase “quality of endurance.” It’s a quality that has to develop and mature through hard work, patients and time.

  • http://www.hope101.net Lori Tracy Boruff

    I recently spoke to a group of women and began by saying “One day my cell phone rang…” when a ladies cell phone really did ring.  She was so embarrassed but it was perfect timing! 

    This post, however, helps clear up the fog for me as I am in the middle of an ‘interruption’ and have not been able to see clearly until now.

    I look forward to turning my situation into opportunity/artistry/win -win experience.

    Thanks again for your wisdom!

    • http://jeremystatton.com/ Jeremy Statton

      That’s a fun story, Lori.

  • http://www.struggletovictory.com/ Kari Scare

    One of my favorite verses is Ephesians 5:16 where we are told to “make the most of every opportunity.” In fact, it’s the impetus behind my blog. This was a great post and reinspired me to keep going down the path I am on.

    • Rachel Lance

      So glad today’s post spoke to you right where you are!

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Jane-Babich/100002993676826 Jane Babich

    Great post! Just as the artist made a lasting memory out of an obstacle; this post has given me a lasting point of reference to prepare to RESPOND not REACT when obstacles are revealed in the process. THANKS!

    • http://jeremystatton.com/ Jeremy Statton

      It is a great visual.

    • Jim Martin

      Jane, I like the way you distinguish between “respond” and “react.”  As you indicate, there is a big difference between the two.

    • Rachel Lance

      Responding vs reacting – excellent takeaway, Jane!

  • https://me.yahoo.com/a/9buxN0dljZPFNI91f4I0LrlBJcWR5YcV#04f58 Sean Boisen

    Great example of this at Logos Bible Software this week. Somebody tossed a cinder block through one of our doors Monday night, and it was captured on security video. Our social media guys turned it into an opportunity to talk about our latest software update (talk about a “doorbuster”!), uploaded the video to YouTube, and even got coverage on the local news.

  • http://www.MicheleCushatt.com/ Michele Cushatt

    I’ve been doing a study of James with a group of women for the past month. James 1:2-4 as well as your pointed question were the exact subject of our conversation yesterday. My toes have been stepped on two days in a row, thank you very much. ;)

    • http://TillerFamily.org/ John Tiller

      Very cool, Michele.  I’m glad I’m not the only one getting my “toes stepped on” when reading Michael’s content!

  • Gillianhorne

    Thanks Michael, this resonances with me.
    I’ve recenty signed up to your email updates and find them really encouraging.

  • Dmondesir

    Hi Michael! Almost 2 years ago, I was forced to move back home with my parents.  I came home and immediately started applying for for several jobs, but to no avail.  My opportunities were limited since I had no transportation; only a home office.  Finally, I stumbled across the concept of becoming a virtual assistant and the increasing demand for it.  I took this, paired it with my ability to write, and after some more failed attempts and a good dose of wisdom, decided to create my own virtual writing and editing company!  Now my business, Desired Assistance, is steadily growing and I have big plans for the future!  

    This month, I decided to launch a spin-off wedding blog: http://www.DesiredAssistanceWeddings.wordpress.com and decided to turn it into a book once I gained enough material.  It was actually your testimony of doing the same that convinced me that this was possible.  I can already see God positioning me and connecting me to succeed in this venture.

    I thank God for your ministry and your testimony sir, it’s highly encouraging.  I wish you God’s absolute best!  

    • http://TillerFamily.org/ John Tiller

      What a great example of looking for the opportunity in the obstacle!   Thanks for sharing that.

  • http://www.semperfiprinting.com/ Mohsin Mallik

    I always see the obstacles as an opportunity to make my way better. As I have faced so much obstacles in my life in terms of choosing my profession. :)

  • http://www.ChristianStressManagement.com/ Miriam Kinai

    I believe that seeing obstacles as tests that we need to take and pass before we can move on to the next level can help us deal with obstacles better if it makes us determined to pass that test by being better Christians rather than fail the test by degenerating to the level of those who are testing us or our patience. And as a result, our endurance is improved in the process of trying to master these trials.

    • http://TillerFamily.org/ John Tiller

      Great view, Miriam!

  • https://pocketpurposeblog.wordpress.com/ Carlene Byron

    Lost job. Next day, I’m talking w/a friend about a book she wants written. Next week, I’m engaged as a contract editor by another friend. Three days later, I’m flying home because my mom’s been hospitalized. The “problem” made me available for opportunities (and responsibilities) I didn’t know existed — but God saw the whole picture.

    • http://TillerFamily.org/ John Tiller

      That’s the key, Carlene!  Many say that God doesn’t give you more than you can handle.  The bible says that God doesn’t give you more than He can handle.  Congrats on your recognition of that!

      • http://www.MicheleCushatt.com/ Michele Cushatt

        You’re absolutely right, John. Thanks for making that distinction.

    • Jim Martin

      Great to hear your story Carlene.  Very encouraging.  Congratulations.

  • Mac Dumcum

    Thanks, Mr. Hyatt, for your very clever way of providing us with a much needed reminder.  I thoroughly enjoyed it!

  • http://www.charlesspecht.com/ Charles Specht

    Opportunity is what you make of it.  If you make nothing of it…it is missed.

    • http://TillerFamily.org/ John Tiller

      Right, Charles.  It’s also been said that “Success is when preparation meets opportunity”.  If you’re not prepared for the opportunity, like you said, you will miss it!

  • PFennJ

    I think I like the perspective of, the interruption used as an opportunity to enhance his performance…instead of hindering or spoiling it. And, so long as he got to continue to perform & enjoy himself doing what he obviously loves to do….  It’s only when the interruption is so overpowering/overbearing or such that it stops you in your tracks, deals you a blow that is just too hard for you to continue performing…that I dont understand it, ie., such interruptions.

    • Jim Martin

      PFennJ, good point.  At times there are overpowering interruptions.  It was nice to see the grace in which this guy handled his interruption.

  • Anonymous

    A great lesson in Improv comedy — you have to say ‘yes’ to everything. Great lesson in life, too. The violinist was present, said ‘yes’ and ‘won the moment.’

    • http://TillerFamily.org/ John Tiller

      So true, Rich.  It could be said that life is Improv.

  • Donovankitkat

    The editor of my first book is a retired English teacher and lifelong friend to whom I email weekly additions to the work for her advise and corrections. As the work has progressed her interest has peaked and now she refers to herself as the co-author. I must either discontinue this liasion, or inform my friend that she is not the co-author but will receive mention and dedication if the book is published. It is unfortunate that people assume part ownership of a property on which they initially offer advise to fill their idle time. I have learned a hard lesson and will regret loosing an old friend.   

  • http://twitter.com/rkinnick59 Randy Kinnick

    What an excellent demonstration of making opportunities work for you.  Every situation is an opportunity of some sort.  Perspective has a lot to do with our ability to see them as such.  I will try to remind myself to see life through that kind of lens.  Thanks.

  • Anonymous

    “The Chinese write the word crisis with two characters, one of which means danger and the other opportunity.”"Milo Perkins  Perspective is definitely the key.  And many times, like in the video, mishaps draw on our artistry, draws out our humanity, and causes others to connect with us on a level that would not have been possible without it.

  • http://www.setongod.com/ Joshua OneNine

    I used to play in a Jazz Band and everyday we would start with an improv session. We would also try to come up with the coolest beat, so I should do the same with life. Whether the “drummer” is playing a difficult tempo or taking it easy. 

  • Veda Ram

    My daughter is preparing for Secondary School Entrance Exams. Over 18000 children will vie for the top schools. She is going through a real rough time now  and I have been beside myself trying to deal with the interruptions ..fasting, praying, trying over and over.. I will use this experience to focus on the positives and  build her self esteem.

  • Anonymous

    Exceptional point! 

    I see each obstacle as a means to get me closer to my goals. Whether they’re huge or minute, obstacles are opportunities and lessons just waiting to be unraveled! There really isn’t any need for us to run from them; they will only show back up in a different form and in more problematic ways than the previous time we approached them. I face those “Doo Doo occurrences” (loved that, by the way) the first go around. That way my chances for conquering them are greater than waiting for them to become a major catastrophe. :)

  • http://www.15minutewriter.com Sharon Gibson

    Thank you, I needed this today. I finally got motivated again to write my book and was on a roll when despite first rate protection, a virus hit and shut down my computer. I needed to be reminded that these trials actually test my faith and give me the opportunity to once again persevere. 
    I liked the idea that you can use these things to demonstrate your artistry, an intriguing positive twist to think about.

    • http://theordainedbarista.com/ Barry Hill

      Sharon,
      Keep on going! Steven Preston, in The War of Art, calls that “resistance.” We all face the resistance, and like you said it’s all about persevering through it!

  • http://www.nginaotiende.blogspot.com Ngina Otiende

    Wow, what a powerful way to deal with the unexpected! 

    I know that taking life a little less seriously would help me respond better to the unexpected :) 

    An uptight, overly-focused view has little room for life’s little plays, interruptions and fun.

    I like the way the guy shrugs benignly at the end of the performance :) . Almost like he’s saying, “what else am i supposed to do when you interrupt my performance?”

    Thanks for sharing this Michael, powerful video to bring the point across.

    • http://theordainedbarista.com/ Barry Hill

      Ngina,
      I am with you 100%. I thought is wry little look at the end of the video was worth the whole video. The look and response was almost a bit passive aggressive in it’s delivery to say, “turn that flippin’ thing OFF.” loved it!

  • Lewis

    I’ve been looking for job for months and finally received an offer, but there has been a hold up for some reason; I’m in contact with the hiring official and have been reassured that they want me. I’ve taken this time to examine what my most urgent needs are now; and what action steps I need to take to have them met. After being unemployed for so long and going through the trying process of hunting for a job; I can take this time to shift into a different gear; work out my budget; take some naps (there have been some sleepless nights). God allows delays for a purpose and calming my spirit is the priority now. 

    • http://theordainedbarista.com/ Barry Hill

      Lewis,
      I love your outlook on what, I’m sure, is a very trying time. I hope and pray that everything comes through with the new offer and that the new job becomes a reality sooner than later.

      • Lewis

        Barry,
        Thanks for your words of encouragement and prayer, the word just came through have  a start date of Feb. 1st… ironically as a manager for a cafe. God is good.

        • http://theordainedbarista.com/ Barry Hill

          Awesome! You’ll have to buy me a cup of coffee sometime soon! ha.

        • http://theordainedbarista.com/ Barry Hill

          Hey Lewis,
          I remembered that today was your first day, so I thought I would see how it went? I hope it was a great first day!

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  • http://darensirbough.com/ Daren Sirbough

    a practical musical hurdle. one that i face week in week out. this has definitely encouraged my resolve to obstacles and interruptions.

  • Sarah Korpita

    Perfect for me today.  I work in local government and strive to work productively with outside organizations.  I realized after reading this, that if I can change my perspective and view these groups as an opportunity for growth personally and professionally, it can completely change the dynamics of our relationship.  Thank you for the insight!

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  • Anonymous

    I love how James challenges us to rise to the occasion, to embrace the adversity and grow from it. Truly he ability to do so come from our attitude (mindset). Find the opportunity to thrive and excel in the midst of life’s challenges and curve balls is a skill we all can practice by focusing on James’s words and monitoring our perception. Great post!

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  • Gayle Glenn

    Absolutely wonderful example of using the obstacle in terrific way!!!

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  • http://www.facebook.com/eversmiling Kingsley Izuka Uchunor

    Life is better lived by having a perspective toward it. And it is this perspective that helps you to see challenges as obstacles or opportunity. Every challenge has always been opportunity of becoming better if handled as gift. Challenges will either leave you better or worse depending on your approach.

  • Srr3

    In my organization “opportunity” is synonymous with “responsibility” and “challenge”.  It’s all interchangeable.  

  • Gayle Glenn

    What a moment for a musician with an ear and a flair for thinking on his feet—-priceless!!  Perspective was handling this as opportunity–not an obstacle.  Took the starch right out of what could have been perceived negatively and positively shined the light of his talent on the situation! ” I will prepare for the opportunity….” (Believe that was Abe Lincoln’s phrase!)

  • http://candelierious.blogspot.com Lis

    Thank you so much for this post.  It is very true.

    My husband has been telling me this for years.  Leave it to Michael Hyatt to get me to listen. :)

    • http://TillerFamily.org/ John Tiller

      Hi Lis,
      There’s a marriage enhancing opportunity … you can tell your husband that his advice was so good that even Michael Hyatt is giving it.  

      Of course, there’s a marriage degradation opportunity too … you can tell your husband that you it didn’t mean as much coming from him.

      I recommend the former :)  

  • http://somewiseguy.com ThatGuyKC

    Too often when I face a problem my knee-jerk reaction is to plow over or through it regardless of the collateral damage. The concert violinist is a great example of turning a problem into an opportunity.

    I was waiting for him to whack someone with his violin.

  • Chandana

    By turning the unexpected in to something that fits in to the Scene & make a Win -Win situation makes even an obstacle support your effort. This requires the craftsmen ship of a Hands on, spontaneous with quick reflexes. Fantastic Clip. Thank you Michael

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