Practicing the Attitude of Gratitude
Several years ago, at the encouragement of a friend, I started carrying a gratitude rock in my pocket. It’s really just a small, smooth stone that I picked up from the fish pond behind our house. I carry it with me where ever I go.
The idea is simple. Whenever my hand contacts the stone–usually several times a day–I give thanks for whatever is happening at that moment, whether good or bad.
It is amazing how this simple act changes my perspective and, ultimately, my attitude. Instead of seeing the glass half-empty, I see it half-full. Instead of focusing on what I don’t have, I focus on what I do have–right now.
Someone once wisely told me, “You won’t get what you don’t have until you learn to be grateful for what you do have.” I think that is so true. We so often focus on our lack–what’s missing.
For example, we complain about our lack of a vibrant, real relationship with God. We wish our church were bigger–or smaller. We wish we had a spouse. Or perhaps we wish we didn’t have a spouse. Or maybe we want to change our spouse.
Or we wish we could get a different job, a different boss, or a bigger paycheck. We wish we had more interesting work, more sensitive coworkers, or different hours.
We wish we could live in a different city, a different part of the city, or a different house. We complain about our furniture, our car, and all our other stuff.
To state the obvious, this is not healthy. And do we really think this complaining spirit will lead to better relationships or more abundance?
I’ve always given thanks when I pray, but often it’s just perfunctory. Now, I am trying to give thanks more deliberately. The gratitude rock is one tool that is helping me.
Let me challenge you to push the pause button and write down twenty items you are thankful for right now. Here’s my list:
- My relationship with God
- His constant presence with me and blessings in my life
- My relationship with Gail
- Thirty-three years of marriage
- Gail’s constant support and encouragement
- Gail’s wisdom and timing
- Gail’s incredible parenting skills
- Gail’s sense of humor and her incredible servant’s heart
- Our home and the joy of sharing it with others
- My daughters and sons-in-law and the varieties of their personalities
- Their love for Gail and for me
- My grandchildren, who always make me smile
- The joy of laughing with Gail and the family
- The little town of Franklin and the fun of being able to walk to almost everything
- This new season of my life, where I am living my dream of speaking and writing
- The fact that I have enough to eat today
- Dark chocolate
- The fact that I am warm, dry, and comfortable
- The fact that I am healthy and able to exercise regularly
- My church and the the people I have worshipped with for twenty-seven years


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MICHELE CUSHATT is a communicator and storyteller whose speaking experience includes Women of Faith, Focus on the Family, and Compassion International. As emcee and communication coach, Michele is in her sixth year on staff at
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